Something major is changing in my life. I have had Wendy as my spouse for the past 20 years. I met her when I was 20 and we fell in love and got married and have three wonderful children.
On November 15th, Wendy told me she had drawn up the papers for divorce. I begged her to stay and told her I would change, which I have done. We were going to counseling, but it was pretty clear that Wendy was done. So I gave her an ultimatum this morning. Either she was going to give counseling 100% or let's just call it now.
We've decided to end our marriage after 18 years. I am sad, and unsure of what the future holds...but I can guarantee I'll be making more time for you guys.