the built in speed controller cant power them then
This!
He's right, the stock Tyco transisters for the speed control are just strong enough for the stock motor. As soon as you hook up a mod motor, it cant handle the larger current draw and over heats the transister and burns them out.
This is why it seem's to loose tourq but gain RPM's (with the stock speed control). Once you get a speed controller that can handle the current, the mod motor will have all of the tourq back plus the added RPM's.
If you really want to do it right, get your hands one some 1/18th scale electronics. You'll need a speed control, receiver, transmitter and servo. You'll have to replace the tyco servo with a real one. But the work is worth it, you'll get real digital proportional steering and speed.
Just be carefull to not turn the gear's into soup.